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It's funny how men say that confidence in a woman is so attractive but if a woman is confident then all of a sudden they are a conceited bitch and they need to be knocked down a peg. Shit is ridiculous. 🤣🤣🤣
They get like this over basic observations, too.
Him: You're really tall.Me: Yeah, I am.Him: Well, don't let it go to your head.
What the fuck is wrong with men? Actually, don't answer that. I don't have all day.
I got tired of my ex husband always looking me up and down and commenting on my shape. Even when I would express for him to not do that. So one day he said your butt looks very nice and I replied I know. He said you don't have to be so arrogant about it and I said I'm agreeing with you. I worked hard for this ass doing pop squats and other crazy shit! So don't get mad at me when I agree with a known fact! He hasn't done again.
Guys can't win.
If we say a genuine compliment, suddenly we're a creep trying to pick you up and that you don't look nice to please us.
If we don't say a compliment, we're ignored and considered stuck-up, unfriendly, and uncaring.
Not all guys are idiots. Not everyone who compliments you is trying to get you into bed. Some of us are simply trying to be friendly and enjoy polite conversation.
The point this has gotten to is completely ridiculous...to where even saying hi, smiling at, or holding a door open for a woman results in a sneer.
Saying hello or giving someone a compliment aren't negative things and it's sad that they're often treated as such.
Mind you, the idiots yelling catcalls, not giving private space, refusing to take no for an answer, or hurling insults deserve anything they receive.
True. Or if they ask for your number and you say nope, I'm involved, sorry.... you get "yeah, well your an ugly bitch anyway!! I didn't really want your number!111!1!"Lmaoooo😂😂
lol I've been trying to teach my daughter to say thank you when she receives a compliment. Her standard is to Han Solo it and say "I know". She's 5. Maybe I should just let it ride lol.
I'm guilty of negating a compliment (ingrained habit), and it is received much better than when I reply with, "thanks!" or "right? I'm rocking it!". I get called cocky or they backpedal to downplay their comment. Like, it really makes you feel better if I have a shitty sense of self worth, huh?
Him: I just love your hair..nothin more beautiful than a natural queen
Me: Thank you (that's all..just thank you..and I keep walkin)
Him: well fuck you then..nappy head ass
Me: lmao (they hate that..they hate being ignored and laughed at..reminds them of being in bed I guess)
This article is great and Feminista Jones is the best Tweeter on Twitter. The compliment from random dudes is not really a compliment' it is a means of control. It is a reminder that women's bodies are "there for men's pleasure." Makes me so angry.
I don't understand. When I get those responses, it usually turns in to a conversation. Maybe I just do not think I am in a porn movie....