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I would like to hear his side of the story. Perfect father, but not good enough to be in residence. Interesting. I wonder who started divorce proceedings.
These stories make it harder for women who have legitimately been abused or taken advantage of. This push to put these stories in social media further contributes to dysfunction in family law "if you can't get along with your ex it's your own fault and we aren't going to help you"
While he does sound like an awesome guy, some of these things are things her "boyfriend" should be doing... running to get pull ups or watching the boy on a minutes notice so she can nap? I'm all for co parenting and getting along, but this kind of borders on taking advantage.
She still uses him as a rock to lean on or should I say to her advantage. Once he finds love all the unnecessary stuff will end. She has a boyfriend ? So why isn't here there when you are stressed , need a nap , or lock your damn keys out the house. Smh. This isn't normal at all. I'm not against co parenting but this isn't about the kid anymore. She uses him for her own personal needs. That he the day I go lean on my ex before my current SO.
, you know what happened here. He was a good hard working man, and it takes a lot of time to work to support your family, so some co-worker of hers started telling her what a bad partner he is and that that guy would be better, and then she had an affair with a co-worker and blame the husband for not being around when he was working to support the family.
Not all men are douche bags. Some are loving, attentive fathers who see past everything to take care of their children. I've never experienced that...but I've seen it.
So it's okay, in fact honorable it seems in many of your eyes, to give up on one kind of relationship because "it just wasn't meant to be"? What if I tried use that logic on why I don't spend time with my kids? Giving up is a pattern. Changing and growing and adapting to be what other people need and deserve is not a bad thing, it is a golden measure of what love is.
Divorce or break up done right. Just because you are not partners anymore, regardless of the circumstances of your break up, does not mean you can't be loving parents to your children. We have instances of this in my family and the children have grown to be wonderful human beings. We have had the other kind of divorce, too, where people behave like spiteful, immature brats, and everybody suffers, especially the kids. End the hating now.
What a special snowflake. Lets all get excited over a sperm donor actually being a father....😒 you know, doing the things he SHOULD be doing in the first place.
I wonder what his girlfriend has to say about the fact that she needs to be taken every where to feel safe... where is the boyfriend to make her feel safe... yea.....